There are so many general statements that we make every day. Think about it. We say, “It is what it is.” We say, “That’s just the way I am.” We also say, “I don’t do this or that, or that’s not me.” You fill in the blank. I have said them all. Let’s focus on ‘It is what it is.’ That statement is something that we subconsciously tell ourselves, and we speak it out loud without thinking. When you say it is what it is, you are telling the universe that you accept the status quo. You are saying that you have no say over what comes into your life. You are agreeing with whatever circumstances you face. But it doesn’t have to be that way. NO, it is not what it is! It is what you say it is. It is what you believe it is. And most of all, it is what you want, prepare for, and expect. So stop saying, “It is what it is!”
Goals, dreams, and visions play a major role in what shows up in your life. If all you want to do is exist, then that’s what you will get. In order to do better you have to see yourself doing better. You cannot get to a place that you have never visualized yourself being. I have seen myself writing and speaking full-time for over thirty years. It has been a long time coming but I was willing to wait. Today I do what I love: write, travel, and speak!