The Right Time

The right time!  We all are constantly looking for the right time…

  • the right time to go back to church after Covid
  • the right time to share the good news
  • the right time to have that difficult conversation

…because we all know that timing is everything!

Sorry to burst your bubble, but there is no right time.  The right time for you could very well be the wrong time for others.  Bottom line – the right time is when you decide…

  • to go back to church
  • to share the good news
  • to have that difficult conversation

Each and every one of us are going through something even if we choose not to share the details with others.  In these past two months I have had many ups and downs, with times when I wanted to share stuff but chose not to, and I have shared stuff when the timing was totally off for the other person.  Many times when we do things hoping to save ourselves/others from stress we inadvertently create more stress or discomfort for others.  The best advice is to leave no questions unanswered in your decision-making process, especially if it involves the support of others. When you leave out vital details you open up the conversation to speculation, which is never good, because as a people we tend to think the worst.  We make decisions based on the knowledge that we have of any given situation and we need to remember that the other person does not have privy to that information.

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