Sometimes the only direction to look is inside yourself. Someone said to me a few years ago, “If the common denominator is always you, then maybe you need to reevaluate how you do things.” As hard as I have tried to do that over the years I still find myself second-guessing my second-guessing. As human beings, no matter what we do we will never get it right every time. The curve balls that come your way are there to course correct you whenever possible. Your findings should allow you to take ownership where you need to and move on. Never allow one mistake to deter all the good that you have done. In a world where mental illness is rampant and hatred has a seat on the front row, don’t allow yourself to go down that road. It is so easy to throw in the towel and say, “Woe is me.” Life is short and precious. Make peace wherever you can and leave the rest up to God.