Joy Now or Joy Later?

We are all navigating this “New Normal” and doing the best that we can with what we have.  As we approach the holiday season many of us are asking the question, “Joy now or joy later?”  Do we attend gatherings outside our home or do we count our blessings and be thankful for the people who live in our space?  I’ve never done a lot of celebrating for Thanksgiving, but I do love Christmas and will definitely miss my annual Do-Drop-In at my place.  This is my once a year opportunity to make and share with my family and friend, all the delicious recipes that I love.

Joy now or joy later?  For me the decision was very easy to make although I have friends who have invited me to their family gatherings.  I’ve opted to relinquish my joy now for the joy of seeing my immediate family next year.  These past eight months have impacted me in numerous ways but the most profound has been the value of family.  I fully understand and respect that this is a personal decision for everyone.  I am considered an elderly woman in the age range that makes me part of the “vulnerable population.”  In addition I have an immune system that is easily weaken as a result of breast cancer many years ago.  My joy during this holiday season will have to come from within!