I’d Rather be Having Sex

I’d rather be having sex! Do I have your attention?  Why is the subject of sex so taboo when it comes to having a great conversation?  What is it that makes us cringe when the topic comes up, especially in a mix group with males and females?  I’m not saying that you should give all your personal details about what happens in your bed, but I do think that adults should be able to have an intelligent conversation about sex without being embarrassed.

Recently I wrote my fourth book, Sexy, Celibate, and Sane – Keeping Your Legs Closed in a Sex-Crazed World. For this book I decided to depart from my usual style of writing and delve into a subject that so many avoid, SEX.  I wrote this book for those of us out there who have felt that something is wrong if you are celibate, whether by choice or default.  Society has a tendency to place a lot of emphasis on sex through their commercials, their music, and their advertisements, but few mention the choice of abstinence, except the church.  For those who say that I am being a hypocrite by promoting the book this way, I want you to know that this book is not based on religion.  And trust me, almost everyone you see in church that’s old enough to have sex is doing so, whether they are married or not.

I always like to make my stories light-hearted with a bit of humor whether in print or in person.  I chose this title because it’s catchy, and there are many days and many circumstances where I would rather be having sex.  When I think of all the rainy days we’ve had here in South Carolina, I’d rather be having sex. As I close my eyes at night in my bed alone, I’d rather be having sex.  When I wake up in the morning and the pillow is the only thing next to me.  When my car brakes down, my tooth need pulling, or my eye glasses break, I’d rather be having sex.  If you want some good humor with lust, love or the lack thereof, be sure to click on the “shop” button and grab your copy of, Sexy, Celibate and Sane- Keeping Your Legs Closed in a Sex-Crazed World.